Tuesday, April 29, 2008

"Yes I just had a gf a few days ago, i don't need to answer to anyone right! It is my life. Even my friends r not totally aware."
"it is not that i'm a liar and dun want to take responsibility! what responsibility should i be taking in the first place?"
"Do u think by putting our pic there makes a point? it just show to people how a insensitive person u are."
"Please remove or delete the blog if u really wish to move on. "

These were excerpts of his smses when he finally replied.
What makes him decide to reply after avoiding me for 1 whole week? It's because he saw the pic of him n his gf here n wanted me to delete this blog.
You dun have a gf suddenly... girls dun agree to become ur gf overnight.... Unless.... opps...
Wonder how long was i kept in the dark. N he ever promised in his sms that he will not like 2 girls at the same time.
Responsibility guy, it doesn't mean the girl has to get pregnant. You are responsible for your own actions, for keeping your words to others. As men, you have responsibility to protect ur family, ur country, ur nation. Can we trust u to do all these?
Am i insensitive? Well, daniel martin wong, do give me a lesson on sensitivity.

I have come to visit this blog many times a day for the past 2 months. I like it. Changed the template back to my fav colour. But as a sign of respect to u n ur new gf, i've removed all my photos. So ... ur gf will not know what i look like.

I'm keeping this blog as a tombstone. A tombstone as remembrance of a love which had died.
I don't mean to offend or harm anyone.
I believe as time passes by, U will fade from my memory and this will become just a cheesy love novel.
I can move on even if i do not delete this blog.
I will like to let my bf read this blog and judge for himself what happened. I'm a forthright and unassuming girl. I find it hard to be cynical.
I won't keep secrets from the man i love, the one i will spend the rest of my life with.

Daniel Martin Wong has ceased to matter. And i don't think i need to do anything for him anymore.
Including deleting this blog just so he can go on cheating other girls.
Being a teacher does not mean we should let ourselves be bullied and not fight back.
Likewise, being an IT specialist with a german bank, being a managing director with a recruitment agency, does not mean you can treat people like trash after they've outlived their purpose.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Girl i support u! do not delete this blog! he's so anxious for u to delete because he's guilty.
Tell him what a business man need, trustworthiness. not ruthlessness. the way he treats u, we will spit saliva on him if we see him. I have a good mind to go print out the photo n ask pple to identify the girl so we can warn her. :) so cheer up! we are all behind u!

Anonymous said...

Dear Princess,
I really hope u are ok. i know u have been very affected by this guy. Although u said he claims to be a managing director, no matter how successful he is, he will never be able to hold his head high in front of all your friends who love u so dearly. To us, he will always remain a JERK, a super BIG JERK who lies blatantly.
Princess, I admire u for being so gracious, u have shown him that u are a woman of substance.
Get him out of ur life, your thoughts from now onwards, though we know it is hard. Someday he will get his retribution... the heavens are watching.
As for his present girlfriend, whether it was an ex gf, or a new gf, we pity her as well. Dun think she knew what she is getting herself into. if he returned to the ex gf who dumped him, then it shows he likes cuckoo, green cap, green cap... yeah. we all have a mean streak in us. Just that they seldom show, cos we reserve them only for a certain kind of people.
Press on girl! We love you!

The Princess said...

Thanks for your unwavering support, my dear frens. It's good enough to have frens like u all in my life. I'm blessed!
Thus, i will love u all more, n shan't spend any more time nor anger on him.
Obviously he has his own issues to deal with. I'm glad life had arranged for me to see the real person behind the beautiful facade.
I used to say i believe he will succeed in life. He did paint a very impressive image of himself from the stories he fabricated. I was so taken in and moved by his resilience and hard work. But like many of u have adviced, and i have seen for myself, i should reread his emails and take all he said with many many pinches of salt.

Thank you frens for coming together n standing by me during this difficult period. Let us love and treasure the people around us, we value people's feelings, we treasure people who love us. We say what we mean and we mean what we say. We are people of substance.
So let us stop commenting on him. Let him live his life the way he wants. It's inconsequential to the universe what he does, so long as he dun find more victims.